Wondering if this would even be possible

[LordKitsuna]

Hmm, it took me so long to write my reply that you've already answered the primary question

Those things happen thanks for responding! good to know i figured something would make that more or less impossible, I like the fist idea you mentioned tho having the manager VPS, afaik the current bukkit plugins that do multiworld with multipul servers simply move the players to that server instead of just relaying data it would be nice to have that. How possible would it be for the servers to behave sort of like a BGP network? making sure the player is communicating via the best possible route given the options available?